Connections - Mapping your relationships

Connections - Mapping your relationships

 Life webbing

We are all connected in lots of ways. How do you see these connections? Strong or weak? Beneficial or destructive?

How important are the people in your life to you? Are they close to you or are they far way?

We are all part of families but how do we see them? Sibling love or rivalry? Family ties? Roles we play? 

We all have friends. How do we see them? A support or not? Old friends or new? Lots or a select few?

A sociogram is a graphic representation of the relationship links that a person has. It can be used to plot out visual structure of interpersonal relationships.

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Play therapy resource 2  

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 Objectives of Activity:

  • To map out relationships
  •  To create a visual representation of how one sees their relationships
  • To give an overview of the structure and formation of relationships 
  • To see the relationships structure as a support system
  • To see deficiencies or gaps in the relationship patterns
  • To visualise the family tree in relation to the self
  • To provide a record and a snapshot of relationships
  • To provide a tangible object or artifact that can be explore further
 Activity:
  1. Draw a symbol for the self at the centre - heart, dot, star etc
  2. From this symbol, map out who is close to you, with other symbols to represent them.
  3. From these connections, link those connections together.  
  4. Think and reflect on your relationships and what they mean to you.
Other Variations:

  • Use twine or sting on a page or on wood with nails
  • Use objects to represent people
  • Use images
  • Use actual photos of family members






Many thanks to the students who have very kindly allowed me to share their work.